Thelma since you have not posted anything for us please post my mail so that blog readers can know my plight. I know my boyfriend loves me very much, in fact I don’t doubt his faithfulness even though people say all men cheat. We are having the most amazeballs relationship ever and I am praying to God that one day soon, I’m hoping on my birthday (wink wink) that he will propose. There is just one gray area and that is his best friend. I’ve given up on complaining because when I did in the past he will always remind me that they’ve been best friends for twelve years and that even his Exs made an effort to be friends with her. I stopped complaining and just tried to manage the situation. It gets better when she is dating as she’s not in our face so much. Unfortunately she started dating a guy whom she knew had a girlfriend (red flag alert!!!) and was even praying and fasting about him. How someone prays over another person’s boyfriend is beyond me but after all some people say if there’s no ring on it then he/she is free for all. So anyway eventually he dumped her and she said she was heartbroken. This was over a month ago and she’s still “heartbroken” even though the relationship did not last up to a month! I don’t care about all these things as they’re not my business, but she has turned it into my boyfriends interest. This girl calls more than ten times in a day. She pings as early as 6am and calls at midnight, she doesn’t even care if I’m with him or not. She’s always demanding to see him in the name of being sad and needing someone to talk to. She shows up at his house randomly without any call or anything. She expects him to drop all he’s doing once she calls. If I complain he’ll say I shoul be empathetic because she’s going thru a lot. Hmm. TTB Fam the gbege now is that boyfy and I are planning to go to Zanzibar in April, we’ve been planning this trip for months and it is going to be our first vacation together. Guess what, madam bff has invited herself on our vacation. She says we shouldn’t worry, she’ll pay for her tickets. As if that’s not bad enough, to help her save costs my boyfriend says we’ll get an apartment style room so that can stay in one room while we stay in another. Please am I supposed to be fine with this? I don’t want her on our vacation much less our room. Please how best can I handle my situation, I don’t want to lose my boyfriend so am I suppose to accept her and see my relationship as a package deal? Please your advise will be appreciated.
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